ladies i need help it not pregancy related bit idk wat to do? me and my sis are a months apart with our kids my is almost a month n she is due any day now. so my mom having her a baby shower on saturday i want to go but than again i dont. she didnt cames to mine because she went to a concerte i let it go n still get along but now my mother in law knows about n tells me not to go to do the same thing and than she like o and the baby to small to go out and be around with alot of people. which idc wat she says bt i dnt want her to get into my husband head n tell the same things n him change his mind but letting me go. and if i do end up going i know my mother in law will than have an attitude with me to make it worst i feel so comfortable due to we live with them.. What will you do ???
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yeah that right we tent to let go of things i should talk to her and go to her shower even if it just for a lil while :) thanks @jboogie
I would definitely go if that is what you want to do. Family have a way if hurting your feelings more than anyone else can but we are quick to forgive them because they're family. I would just let her know that she hurt you by not coming to your shower then let it go. Maybe she will be more considerate of your feelings in the future.
@kattastrophe, yeah that true people never get satifi anyways they will always talk.... @jboogie yeah i do kind of want to go bt idk if it cuz am always stuck at home since i got pregant and havent went out so i will like to go for just a lil but than again am like yeah she didnt cames to mines n wen she wants she talks to me and wen she does we get along so good even joke around i guess i just dont have a cold heart and it more like am leading more into going
If you really don't want to go, just tell them your not feeling up to it. Your baby is still small enough for that excuse to work. As far as your MIL I wouldn't tell her anything else regarding family issues if she is that type of person. And "Let you"?
I'd do whatever I want. people get over things in time.... you're your own person.
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