I really don't want him to have anything to do with my daughter or son, I know that it's his baby too. but he doesn't care, he ignores me, and the only time he's looked at me was when I was throwing up... he has a girlfriend and I know he's not gonna be there for this child or me. Maybe he'll change his mind, but I feel that it's best if he's not in our lives...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I have no friends! ? I have no actual proper friends! I never go on nights out cos I don't have friends to go with! It doesn't usually bother me but it's starting too! My oh is busy helping his friend move today and then tonight he's out at the boxing with his mates and out after! Rhys is at his dads so it's just me and Isabella! ??
So my son is 5 years old and he's very behind on knowing his ABC's and numbers and also writing his name. I don't know what to do because he starts kinder next month.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here... and he is talking to the girl (me.) But he doesn't know it's me.... he is lying saying I cheated on him, and that my name is jule, and clearly it's lacy. And he only got with me bc I was a good mom.... but just yesterday he came and stayed with me, we had sex all night... he is telling me one thing, and her (me) another... lol I'm thinking on just walking away... and yes I'm 24 weeks pregnant with his child.
jana.bear·В ожидании первенца
It's a catch 22. You may need or want financial support at some point. But that gives him rights that cannot be ignored. And if he knows it's his baby he can come after you at some point to establish paternity and visitation which is out of your control. You're better off having the door open. My husband's best friend was able to strip his sons mother of custody because she repeatedly demonstarated that she would not let him see his child. So the courts decided she didn't have the baby's best interest in mind and have the father custody. That is rare but it can happen. Try to keep it civil. Don't try to make him come around but don't be crazy if he does want to.come around. Move on with your life and focus on you and baby and the rest will come in time.
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