so beyond over this! I'm 36 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend hasn't touched me sexually in over a month I give up on trying to have sex or any romance at all! we went from having sex everyday to once a month if I'm lucky. he's not cheating cuz he goes straight to work and straight home, I know how long it takes even with traffic, plus he normally calls me on his way home. I just feel like he's no longer sexually attracted to me. I will even try to fill him up and he passes out on me. -_- it just hurts my feelings more than anything.
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You might have to understand how he is feeling too. Is this his first baby? Some guys like my husband just don't feel comfortable. It's only for this time trust me have a 16 month old and am already pregnant with my second. Sex is much better this time around. I say have a rational talk with him, together research positions you might want to try.
guys don't understand what we are feeling, he may think that you may get hurt or the baby, he also might be weirded out by the baby a lot of guys are, but I would definitely let him know how you're feeling, not in a blaming way or anything just talk, let him know what to do.
It's so hard like I want to take it from him lol @dess310
exactly, we slept with different blankets cuz we liked to be wrapped up in our own but that never stopped us sexually. I used to be able to touch his arm or leg and bam turned into sex. it's like he's gotten really lazy in the relationship and it's time we sat down and talked about it cuz to me sex is very important in a relationship.
I feel the same way mine hasn't been cuddling and has been agitated by me..I use to be able to touch in night but now I find the blankets wedged tightly between us..IDK it sucks
I have :/ he says he doesn't want to hurt me. I told him over and over again he's not going to, he's hurting me more by not touching me :(but maybe i need to be more specific. thank you!
let him know how you're feeling he might not be doing it because of a certain reason just let him know how it makes you feel
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Uggghh My Husband Barely Wants To Have Sex With Me 🙄He Claims He Is Scared To Have Sex With Me Due To Thinking He Might Hurt The Baby 😒😐I Am Just Too Sexually Frustrated For His BS ....Plus I Feel Like Sex Will Help With My Labor ,I know It Sounds Bad But I Am About To Rape Him Ladies 😂😂I Can't Take It No More I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex in the past 8 months 😲
Zero sex life
Me and my SO have absolutely no sex life anymore and it's really starting to get to me. I try and give him hints and still nothing. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore and it's really starting to upset me /: is anyone else having this problem?
That's the thing he isn't freaked out by the baby or concerned on hurting him he knows cuz I had dr tell him that sex is safe and all that. I think he's just being lazy.