so beyond over this! I'm 36 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend hasn't touched me sexually in over a month I give up on trying…

That's the thing he isn't freaked out by the baby or concerned on hurting him he knows cuz I had dr tell him that sex is safe and all that. I think he's just being lazy.

You might have to understand how he is feeling too. Is this his first baby? Some guys like my husband just don't feel comfortable. It's only for this time trust me have a 16 month old and am already pregnant with my second. Sex is much better this time around. I say have a rational talk with him, together research positions you might want to try.

guys don't understand what we are feeling, he may think that you may get hurt or the baby, he also might be weirded out by the baby a lot of guys are, but I would definitely let him know how you're feeling, not in a blaming way or anything just talk, let him know what to do.

It's so hard like I want to take it from him lol @dess310

I'm going threw the same thing..

@vanessa619,

exactly, we slept with different blankets cuz we liked to be wrapped up in our own but that never stopped us sexually. I used to be able to touch his arm or leg and bam turned into sex. it's like he's gotten really lazy in the relationship and it's time we sat down and talked about it cuz to me sex is very important in a relationship.

I feel the same way mine hasn't been cuddling and has been agitated by me..I use to be able to touch in night but now I find the blankets wedged tightly between us..IDK it sucks

I have :/ he says he doesn't want to hurt me. I told him over and over again he's not going to, he's hurting me more by not touching me :(but maybe i need to be more specific. thank you!

let him know how you're feeling he might not be doing it because of a certain reason just let him know how it makes you feel