Sometimes I feel like ignoring my so call bffs because they don't understand that I like to be at home with my kids n…

Sometimes I feel like ignoring my so call bffs because they don't understand that I like to be at home with my kids n husband...and I tell them that I don't need no girls day out n they'll be like but everyone's needs a day out by themselves...yea but I'm happy to be with them everyday n all day...I don't like to call mama at 3pm when I'm sleepy so she can keep my kids just so I can sleep...how do y'all deal with ppl like this