ever since I started putting my baby on my chest he cries if he's not being held. I feel like I can't get anything done because he cries if he's in his swing or crib anymore. should I just let him cry? I need to get up and around... I am literally still in my pj's because of this little guy

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Sometimes I have no patience for my dog. He's a puppy and he constantly wants me to hold him or pick him up and he constantly cries. My patience while pregnant is literally at 0 and I feel bad because he's just a baby but I can't help it his crying irritates me 😭
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
EVERY SINGLE NIGHT HE JUST CRIES AND CRIES AND CRIES ... STOMACH FULL HE CRIES , BURPED HE CRIES , NOT ON MY BOOB HE CRIES 🤦🏽♀️