I've never been more pissed and the feeling of doing this all alone has really took over ... I wrote Dr appt on fridge with the time and the hubby and I have talked about it over and over and I called from work to see if he was going no answer when I'm on my way to Dr I call again he said yeah I'm going but I'm not ready yet ...wtf u see on the fridge its at 10 and I have yo be there 15 min early and your not ready..... needless to say I'm at appt by myself and not happy at all this isn't the only incident that he has done to make me feel this way this week ....I busted my ass sanding down the crib we bought after I've asked him to do it two days in a row since he's not working ..
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Personally, I'm only concerned with my husband being there with me at my "important" ob appts. Like the first one, the anatomy scan, and when it gets to weekly appts towards the end. Guys couldn't care less, honestly lol.
I know I'm so over whelmed my job is stressful and my blood pressure is up already today from the morning breakfast wave at a elementary school in the projects where kids are violent and I've been cramping really bad I just want to cry... i feel like if he's not gonna help he needs to leave I can do it alone I don't need the extra mouth to feed or extra aggravation
If he's not working he should be ready for whatever. You shouldn't have to ask a second time.
it was an important appt its his first child and it was an ultrasound appt plus Dr appointment but he showed up just in time ... and left after ultrasound cause they don't allow anyone back other than mother with the Dr unless there are concerns