I know how you feel. My SO's parents are not going to ever see this baby, who happens to be their first grandchild. His parents are divorced and we have been staying with his dad and step mother and it's been just awful. His dad is a huge drug addict and is prescribed pain killers and all sorts of other stuff. He steals from us, stole 2 checks we got for Christmas and forged our signatures so he could cash them for himself. He hasn't paid us back saying that we "owed him." His mom is awful too, she told me to give the baby up for adoption and when I told her we had discussed t at the beginning of my pregnancy but that we decided we couldn't do it she told me that since we are not married I don't have to tell my boyfriend and that he will "find out the day the baby is born." She wanted me to place my baby up for adoption and not tell his father. Fucking evil. We have completely cut her out of our lives and once we move out of his dad's house (we are at my mothers for a couple weeks to avoid him) we are never ever talking to him or his step mom again. Ugh. It makes me sad that my little one won't know either of his grandparents on his dad's side. But I assume you have a good reason for not letting your mom be a part of your baby's life too.