My children's father was abusive and an ass so I finally got up and left. I've been alone now basically this whole…

Thanks guys! ☺️ @cass_lynne definitely waiting. I've told them both I don't want anything right now. The one I work with but the other one I've known since I was in elementary school so I trust him much more because his family is my family too already. Waiting is definitely my plan. I am nervous about men around my daughter so I normally dwindle for a while about everything.

No. I went through the same thing. Just be very careful. I wouldn't focus much on men. Finish your pregnancy strong and give all your attention to your babies. They need you more than anything. If they truly mean what they say they will wait for you. Just be careful and guard your heart. I had two guys like that, unfortunately it didn't work out with the first and the second I just don't trust. Not saying that will happen to you. Just be careful momma, you're still healing!

No. I am in a somewhat similar situation. My child to be father is not around and basically told me that me and this baby are a mistake and regret to him. So I let him go and now a friend of mines wants to pursue me and I think it's weird for him to do that when there are other good women out there.

They see something in you that you don't. It takes a real man to want to raise somebody else's kids. That's wonderful that two good guys want you don't let the fear of what happened with your ex keep you from being happy