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Kamiya
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I don't understand the purpose of a push gift. I really don't lol but I guess to each its own but seriously...my…

I don't understand the purpose of a push gift. I really don't lol but I guess to each its own but seriously...my daughter will be my push gift. The only gift I want and need after this long journey. not knocking anyone that's getting push gifts I just personally don't see the reason for them lol.


EDIT: I don't see the purpose of women REQUIRING a push gift. if someone randomly gets u one that's SWEET lol.

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leiibaaaby

Lei

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Oh all the hell he put me thru and all the hell i went thru alone while he was just living the life im getting a push gift it better be bomb too ! 😂😂😂

marchmomma989

marchmomma989

Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

@kaliyahsmommy, what's a push gift lol

wafiyahd

Wafiyah

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It's a gift from your child father it's a way of saying thanks for everything girl accept the extra gift I'm not turning mind down

missing145user

missing145user

I didn't even know what that was until someone brought me one wasn't my child's father, but from a family member, I think they're nice just not necessary! I've seen some girls "require" one, and I don't think they're that big of a deal.

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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lmao. get your gift girl I don't want it I don't even deal with my bd but I'd throw that shit right back at his ass haha just give me my daughter and leave me alone 😂😂 @leiibaaaby

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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what @wafiyahd said @marchmomma989 lol

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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yeah no like if someone gets me one though I'd accept it and be like aww how sweet lol but like you said people REQUIRE them and throw a bitch fit if they don't get one and I don't see why when you're receiving something so priceless in the end @their.bomb.ass.mom

jana.bear

jana.bear

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At the risk of sounding like a dumb dumb, what's a push gift?

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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I didn't say I'd turn it down I just don't understandxwhy women require it lol besides I don't want anything I rely don't I don't need or want a gift for carrying my baby she's a gift enough but if someone was to get me one I wouldn't give it back lol unless it was from the child's father i don't want shit from him @wafiyahd

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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@jana.bear, a gift that most of the time the child's father gets u as a thank you for carrying his child basically.

jana.bear

jana.bear

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Oh ok. lol Heck shouldn't they be doing that ALL the time?

wafiyahd

Wafiyah

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@kaliyahsmommy I'm sorry I misunderstood what you we're saying my apologies

leiibaaaby

Lei

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Lol girl i was just on the phone with him for 3hrs talking about everything hopefully we come to an understanding im still annoyed tho 😒😂

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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lmao. i hope y'all do that will be such a blessing !! @leiibaaaby

leiibaaaby

Lei

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Lol yeah a real blessing. I just cant wait for him to come home Friday ima use him to my full advantage 😂

gunlovinmommy

Jessica

Baby is good enough for me. and one of my fave beers. that's all I ask :) baby and a beer and a big happy family.

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

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oh yes !! haha give me a bottle of wine and my baby @gunlovinmommy

gunlovinmommy

Jessica

Lol I ain't gonna lie, when we go out and hafta take him I'm gonna be that mom with a beer or Margarita (just one if we hafta drive home) and my baby/toddler in the other haha xD

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