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stephine
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I'm 27 and I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I live in burns oregon and I'm trying to find some laws into the mother being…

I'm 27 and I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I live in burns oregon and I'm trying to find some laws into the mother being primary custody of the child before going to court cus I can't afford to get full custody of the baby and I also don't know how to go about it in getting custody of the child and I'm also scared that he will try and kidnapped the baby while I only have primary custody of the child and scared that if he dose that theirs nothing I can do to get the child back cus theirs no court order stating that I have primary or custody and I need help in doing something like before the baby will be hear and how much the custody will cost to get please I need some help or something so I know and stuff

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sbarteni

stephine

ok he also dosent even live in the same town I do now he moved back to the town he's from but carterclaytonb do u know the law about the baby and the farther and the law for custody

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carterclaytonb

KimberlyМама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

I had my child in Oregon and they made us sign a document saying that we both agree that he is the father. So if you don't sign that and he doesn't sign the birth certificate then he'll have to go through the court to prove paternity.

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sbarteni

stephine

mjmommy what dose legal aid do and how dose it work

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sbarteni

stephine

anerruny12 I can not put him on the brith certificate?

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sbarteni

stephine

thanks ashsloan and yea he said once that he he won't pay for shit when I said it cost for court and stuff so I'm not sure but I just want to make sure I have no way of losing the baby

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mommy4916

JenniferМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Also if you don't put him on the certificate you won't need custody you are the mom

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ainsleighsmumma

Ashlynn SloanВ ожидании первенца

Don't put his name on the birth certificate. Then he will have to pay for Dna testing and a lawyer and something tells me he probably won't want to do that. Secondly get a legal aid they should see how much you make and depending on that they will help you file for full custody for free or low cost

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mommy4916

JenniferМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

If he DOSE NOT sign the birth certificate then it's kidnapping !! you are the mother and as long as you are fit they won't give him custody until he files for it and then he will have to prove dna and then if that happened the baby will still be to small to stay away from yoy so you won't have to worry about that untill a year or so

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stephine

legal aid how do they work if you know?

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mjmommy

MariaМама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего

research legal aide I heard they usually help for free to file for full custody

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Joint Custody and moving?

Joint Custody and moving? If you share joint custody of your child and are the "primary" parent (meaning the child lives with you most often), can you move out of state without getting permission from the other parent?

My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all…

My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.