Is anybody elses mom like going over board ? My mom wants to be off at least 3 days when the baby…

My grandma is like that rn trynaa control everything n how everything should go it's annoying at times

Its not that shes tryna control everything its just she invited herself to the delivery when I honestly i want it to just be me and my babys dad and now she wants to take off 3 days like wth what are you going to be doing for 3 days ? Cause i dont want you there alllday maybe for a few hours or something 🙄 @cheeycheey

U try telling her wat u want n she sound like she so excited for the baby to be coming soon

I know she is thats why i changed my mind and im letting her be there at first i didnt want anybody there but him but im not sure what she plans on doing for 3 days lol like seriously and im trying to put it in a nice way but i don't know how cause i know she is excited dont want to hurt her feelings @cheeycheey

Think again. Take her help into consideration. Although I wanted my mom there of course because she's my mom for 1 and secondly, i was having her first grandson, but she was really such a help! Having a baby was no joke and the pain I felt, I didn't even want to put up with the dad at the moment just wanted my mom. She knew me the best

Yeah see it sounds like your really close to your mom . Im not saying she cant be there when i have the baby already said she could . But She wants to be there 3 days after and i have a big house with alot of people plus her dad im not going to need her to stay for 3 days she can visit for a while come back later the same with his mom etc but i dont want her there allday thats to much @sokori

Yes I am close with my mom but I understand. It's up to you :) whatever makes you feel as comfortable as can be

I'm having the same thing with my mom 😧. I keep telling her the first 2 weeks are bonding time with the baby and we don't want anyone over but then she gets emotional and says I'm not just anyone blah blah blah lol