😩 I can't with these people... if I chose to look at it like July isn't that far away let me, I'm not bothering nor hurting you. Don't like that I'm preparing early and asking alot of questions because this is my first...block me, trust me I don't care and you won't hurt my feelings.
Just kidding lol you already know yo ignore people lol
you have every right to be excited regardless of how far along you are 😊 some people I swear jus be caught up in their own feelings & wanna place their mood upon someone else lol
@milf. thanks girl, I like being prepared especially knowing im responsible for my little beauty I only want the best for her
Lol, wth, people are ridiculous😂 I'm 25 weeks pregnant, and I have everything that I'll need for him. If he were to come today, I'd be more than prepared. I think everyone should plan ahead. July isn't that far away, it'll be here before we know it! Keep doing what you're doing girl😄
It was definitely a roller coaster. but everything is fine, little man is healthy, and will be here within the next 4 weeks! after how much I'm spending on my shower, I better get everything I need lol.
@babyreeves oh goodness😮😮😮 and yeah don't blame you girl I was told the little get together theyre throwing me ( canceled shower) that most got wipes and hygiene so just leaves diapers for me:)
@kimberlyyyy I have a feeling that will be us lol, right now she's gaining weight great and her organs are right in track but her body measures small ill just get a couple just in case:) i was 5lbs 4 oz and he was 5 lbs 8oz haha
I'm going to buy a small soft pack of diapers and wipes for the hospital bag just in case, but I'm hoping my baby shower clears out the rest! lol. I would have bought sooner, but at 16 weeks I was still bleeding and doctors were still using the M word 😰
Alright, based off family history I would recommend just a couple preemie outfits just in case. My first son was 3rd generation 5 pound baby so I just make tiny babies.
@kimberlyyyy well i was a preemie and so was her daddy and neither of us are real big so even if it's just a few outfits😩
@babyreeves I've been buying since 6 weeks, my daughter had a travel system, bouncer, swing, and pack n play by 8 weeks now she is getting her crib today and is stocked on clothes I'm just like you only need diapers, hygiene, and wipes now. 😩 I don't want to need anything by 7 months just so by then it can be fun and i just stock up @babyreeves glad you also did something like me
I started buying things around 20 weeks (thrift store clothes and sales). I didn't get any of the big things until I got my taxes back beginning of February and my shower isn't until the 20th of this month, but I have everything I need except for hygiene, diapers, and wipes now, and I'm super relieved because at this point it really is a matter of when. I'll be 9 months tomorrow. Technically I have 4 to 5 more weeks, but anything can happen and my money is tied up now for my maternity leave. better safe than sorry 👍👍
Chances are you wont need preemie clothes. I got them because my full term baby was small so I figured my second would be small too.
@kimberlyyyy same here lol, I'm prepared to go back to college in a year already😂 it's just my nature to prepare early that way I can freak out when it gets close haha. I need to get preemie clothes i never thought of that😩
I had no idea he was coming early but I had a pump, preemie and newborn clothes, diapers, wipes and other standard baby things ready for him. I'm one of those people who has to be prepared for everything just in case. Lol.
@harperkatesmommy agreed girl mine is May 21 but I'm thinking I'd rathr have it in April maybe a join thing for Joseph's birthday lol i just don't want her to come early and us be super unprepared it scares me @kimberlyyyy and see you are a great example that baby's come when they choose, that is so sad your little came so early but atleast you were prepared alot of people I know wouldn't have been. Heck my SO wants to wait until shes here and I'm just like dude no.
@simplybrit22 I swear your right on point with it, exactly anything can happen especially with jobs and money. We just so happen to be moving a month after she is born so we not only have to buy for her but we will have more bedrooms we have to fill and a mortgage😩 and yes girl I'm 4'11 and HUGE lol so walking around is already not fun for me so I'd like i get everything up and ready while I still can help and not just supervise haha
You have no idea how thankful I was that I bought a bunch of stuff early because if I hadn't, I wouldn't have had anything when my preemie was born 11 weeks early. There's nothing wrong with being prepared and stocked up early!!
Yeah girl! Don't let them bother you! There's no right or wrong thing to do that! Just because someone else is/wants to do things late in their pregnancy doesn't mean you have too! Yep, that's what I'm saying! My little one could come in June too so I wanna be prepared for her! I'm having my first shower, in 2 weeks. I'll only be 26 weeks, but I like getting stuff done early too!
Those 3 1/2 months are going to fly by so fast. Later on in your pregnancy if not already your going to be so tired to even walk around. It would take a huge load off of people when it's time for your baby shower as well. We started early too because I was just too excited to get things once I found out the gender. And plus we had the money to do things instead of waiting till the last minute when money is kind of tight.
@harperkatesmommy preach girl, which is why i told them block me lol, it re all won't hurt my feelings at all. That's why I'm doing it all now apart from wanting her to hav everything I think she needs in reality she won't bc ill forget alot but I want to be able to help when I'm 8/9 months pregnant I won't be able to. Exactly July really isn't that far away and people are forgetting babies come when they want Brin could choose to come at thss end of June none of us know
girl right? Lol I just got told there is no reason to buy everything now that I have 3 3/4 months left and to wait until my baby shower.. unlike most getting stuff for my daughter is solely me and her daddy's role, if others do get her something well hell I'll be set but I'm not going to depend on them😩 with the way this pregnancy is going 3-4 months will be here in no time and that scares me lol @simplybrit22
Who cares what people think. Someone has to hate on someone about everything!😒 I'd rather have stuff done early so I don't have to worry about it when I'm too huge, and tired to do anything! You're doing great girl! July really isn't THAT far away anyways.
It's good that your getting everything early. I did the same thing. don't pay these people no mind.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I feel like all you girls on here hate me 😔 so I'm gonna delete this app ✌️
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
My dad was 5lbs 6oz, I was 5lbs 5oz, my first son was 5lbs 11oz, and then my preemie was 2lbs 1oz. I think genetics definitely play a role.