@tinyram09, I don't like sugar coating lmao seriously. I don't like beating around bushes or people who try to avoid shit just to spare feelings. Yes I'm super nice but when it's something important I don't care for diddly daddling and what not. There's no point. I can be emotional I'll tell you that, but I'll let you know if you upset me. Believe me. It's easier for me to say something than nothing at all. I don't like animosity or confrontation of any kind foreal but I can have an attitude so if I'm ever out of line also let me know. I'm good for knowing when I'm wrong and apologizing. And that's why I don't have a lot of female friends. Too many think they know everything and talk down about people then they smile in their face. I have one best friend, my one actual friend. And a few other females I can call friends but I won't say I can depend on whole heartedly. And gotchu, your business is yours alone and I don't do gossip. Also I know I'm younger than you but as a friend come to me if you need to vent as well.

yesss Ma it absolutely makes sense to me! im usually very good at being able to tell alot about a person very quickly and knowing who i want in my life and around my son and baby on the way..i can tell you that ive been through alot of shit in my life and ive experienced alot including some things nobody should ever have to experience so im usually pretty good with giving advice because chances are ive been through it myslef or know someone close to me who has.. one thing about me i will warn you about is that i dont sugar coat shit im a very upfront blunt honest person sometimes it's not such a great thing..because it can hurt peoples feeling even though i never intend to amd homestly that comes from going through so much in life and from beomg half puerto Rican ..i dont take shit from anyone it doesnt matter who you are.. so i will ask you this ahead of time if i say something or do something that upsets you or hurts your feelings please please come to be amd be open and honest and lmk what i did to upset you so i can fix it! its never my intemtion to hurt someone i care about! and so far you seem like a really cool down ass chick..lol ..so i never want to upset you or hurt your feeling but if you dont like something just come to me women to women and lets talk it out and figure it out together... im way to damn old for games and that why I don't have alot of friends anymore..i got tired of all the pettiness amd games you know what i mean.. and yes its very hard to fimd someone you can talk to who will be open minded and not judge especially with females.. women are way to critical over eachother but i 100‰ believe in supporting and raising up amd havong other women's back..i personally dont understand why women have to hate on each other so much why cant we all just support and uplift each other..and like i said you can always come to me amd ask me anything it absolutely doesn't matter what it is! even if its something very personal about myself...i will always answer any questions and ill always try to give the best advice.. I just ask that you ask me personally and privately and you dont put my business out for everyone to see and know and i will 100‰ have the same respect for you.. everything will always be private and confidential!!

@tinyram09, awww that's awesome! I do too. Girl I'd appreciate an older friend, lots to ask about and better answers lol! Awesome to know I have someone I can talk to about whatever though. It's hard to find people who don't look down on you for everything you've done. I'm the say way because I truly find it hard to judge people when I know nothing about them. I pick up on vibes as well though. so even if I don't want to judge I know who I don't want to surround myself with if that makes sense.

aww ...my sister in laws birthday is January 16th!! and i absolutely adore her and shes absolutely stunning and so are you!! i have a good feeling about this new friendship.. lol.. no but i hope even though we live in different states and im old as hell..Lol.. i hope you start to feel you can ask me anything.. and im very non judgmental!! nobodys perfect..i know im definitely not so i dont judge anyone for what theyve done or do..i try to understand where people come from and i try to help...

@tinyram09, definitely will love. January 16th!

if you have any other questions about anything not just tattoos just message me and ill help as much as i can.. and what day in January is your birthday? mine is January 11th

@tinyram09, or at least a plan. And lol I ever pay attention to spelling because my brai automatically knows what you mean.

@tinyram09, lol thanks for telling me all this. I'll be figuring everything out at least by Christmas time. This year is a bit hectic and so much is going on between now and the holidays. Hoping I have at least one by or some time after my bday in January 😊

and i apparently can no longer spell tonight..lol.. pls excuse the spelling

in my opinion the ribs are the worst..i have a tattoo along my ribs that goes from the bottom of my right boob to my right hip..that was the worst 3 hours of my life bsides having my son naturally! i would say the easiest place for me was my Right calf.. really my legs werent bad excpt by the ankle amd my half sleeve.. shoulder to elbow on my right arm waamt bad either.. but now they dont hurt me anymore but i will never get my other robs tattooed... or atleast i say that for now..lol.. i plan on being covered except some special areas.. i swear getting tattooed is like therapy to me!! i swear the pain comes from the anticipation and the noice of the tattoo gun.. wear some headphones and listen to your favorite music while your getting it done amd for your very first tattoo i would suggest you get something small so you can see how you do with it!! i literally have tattoos pretty much everywhere throughout my body and im nowhere near done yet!

@tinyram09, okay thank you! And omg, tatted momma. Where does it hurt the worse or where's the best place for a first timer? Lol

i would look for what i want first so that way you know exactly what and how you want it and figure out where you want them as well and then i would look for an artist and make sure you do your research on that artist and on the tattoo shop...dont rush into it..take your time!! i have 32 tattoos.. i got my first tattoo when i was 16 and now im 31 and ive gotten atleast 18 of those 32 in the last 2 years

@tinyram09, lol it'll be my first tattoos and I really want something nice. Should I figure out what I want first or look for a good artist?

im literally a tattoo addict! i told my husband within 1-2 weeks after this baby is born im getting a new tattoo.. im literally having ink withdrawals..lol