This is both of our first child. We moved back home from school in Augusta due to the fact that I…
This is both of our first child. We moved back home from school in Augusta due to the fact that I lost my job because of my pregnancy and his dad gave us both jobs working for him, long story short let us move in to save so that we can move to Fla . Less than a week ago his dad hits him with the u need to pay me 400 a month for rent. No I don't expect to stay anywhere for free , but what you don't do is say we are family your here to help and then suck pockets dry.. With that being said this is the first grand on both sides and I know how his mom is about people coming to her house and I have family As well. I've been looking for places to move but he doesn't feel the need to. I don't have to deal with them , I'm not being selfish but at the same time your paying literally 200 for us both with no privacy as renters you know😑 my mind is all over. I'm not taking her away from him and I wouldn't dare do that but a person can only take so much and I can't deal with a controlling Ass man and his father feels as if he runs EVERYTHING.
Irmaris·
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Happened to my SO and I!!!! His uncle offered him a job with him in west palm beach making what he said would be 500 a week. We moved there from debary/deltona area and the he started charging him for EVERYTHING and never paying him. At one point he owed him about 2000 and we weren't able to pay any bills. He was also making me use my food stamps and wic to buy them food, which at first I found understandable but I would end up with no money PLUS no food for myself or my SO bc they literally destroyed everything in less than 4 days.
Irmaris·
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Plus, he didn't pay him the promised 500 a week. More like 150-200, when he did pay him.
Marianna·
@yadismommy15, girl that's messed all the way up. Like we are saving to move to Miami where he is from. They have fam there still and stuff but they got me wanting to look for a 1 bedroom apt here in the Gwinnett area for about 6 months she doesn't need a room yet shoot get a bassinet and call it a day because this is the first grand on both sides. I have family too and I'm not about to have his mom rushing my company or looking at them funny
Irmaris·
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Ugh yes it is. We ended up moving back up and my parents let us move back in into my old room which thankfully has its own bathroom inside so we get some privacy. His family always has me so messed up. I just don't understand why family gotta be like that sometimes smh And yes girl, a bassinet and call it a day! That's what I'm doing. Lol
Irmaris·
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Btw, I just noticed we have the same due date lol
Mikahla·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I have a support group on facebook called mommy support group 101 you can talk and post or even message the page for a private post if you ever need to talk it's a great place