well new to this.. just found out im pregnant and im stuck on how to tell the dad. any advice?

@babybird080316, i will

Yea well u do what best for u mama just sit him down and tell him

@babybird080316, yeah ive got one set up for next week. but i want him to be there ya know i am a little nervous

Well I just texted my Bd and said I'm pregnant he was like how I'm like nigga do I have to explain the birds and the bees lol but because you had problems before wait till u see ur doctor and make sure everything is okay then tell him

@beckahhkathleen, im just worried that he will freak out cause of the last time. we broke up a month ago and i just found out about me being pregnant this is my 2nd pregnancy and im worried cause im afraid ill lose this one like i did the last one.

See with my daughter i bled a lot like i swear it was a MC and i couldn't bare to get my SO excited ... so i waited and the cause to my bleeding was placenta previa. but honestly giving him a recording of the heartbeat and a ultrasound pic was the best thing it made him happy.

@beckahhkathleen, i actually thought about doing that

Wait then wait until you get a ultrasound done to make sure baby and heartbeat are there ya know .... to give him some reassurance that's what i did with my daughter.

@amira93,

@amim just worried he will freak out cause we went through this once before and i lost the baby back in sept. and the drs told me then i ckuldnt have kids now come to find out im pregnant again

Only you know how well he'll respond, maybe go to dinner or write a letter, just depends if it's gonna be a crazy reaction or joyous occasion