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My boyfriend and I have had a couple names picked out since we found out we were having a boy. We went to his family…

My boyfriend and I have had a couple names picked out since we found out we were having a boy. We went to his family Christmas and told one name that was high on our list and not the other. So his aunt and cousins started calling him Finnick which was one of our other names. Now it's our top pick (just spelled Fynnic) and they keep saying they picked out his name, or they named him and I can't change it. It's really making me annoyed and makes me not want to name him that. What should I do??

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pixiestix

KaraМама сына (5 лет)

of course! everyone in your family or his family will have something to say or something they think you should be doing differently. you have to keep in mind that this isnt their child, but yours. you have final say, you get to decide what is right for that child. not them. you cant let what other people think affect your parenting or what you think is right for your child or your decisions towards what you choose to do with your child. you gotta let that shit just roll right off. :)

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natalee811

natalee

@pixiestix, @reaganmommy2015 thank you both for helping me understand that it shouldn't matter what they think or say:)

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pixiestix

KaraМама сына (5 лет)

let them believe what they wanna believe. dont try and make everyone else happy by making yourself unhappy.

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natalee811

natalee

@pixiestix, I really want to but I know that they will tell everyone they picked and they named him.

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reaganmommy2015

Martee 💋💋Мама троих детей

I would just tell them it's not their kid it's yours so you will make the decision

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pixiestix

KaraМама сына (5 лет)

name your baby what you want to name him. dont let family control what you do with your child.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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Have you chosen a name? What did you choose?

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