I am so sick and tired of arguing with my husband every night when it is his turn to feed the baby... He's always in a bad mood when it's his turn and he has a major attitude, and he only has to get up once with him. I'm so tired of getting migraines every morning because I have to hear him talk his shit and treat me like crap and then he has no patience what so ever with our son and just upsets him and makes him cry even more every time. When I confront him he says "I'm tired and I don't feel good", well I'm sorry but that's no excuse! Then he expects me to take care of the baby all day and night when he doesn't feel good but he never feels good so I would be doing everything completely on my own. Then during the day when he comes home from work he uses the excuse that he's too busy so he can't do anything with our son, he can't feed him, he can't change him, he can't give me 5 minutes to do my own thing because he's too busy... yeah sure whatever. I take care of the baby all day and still manage to keep the house clean, I have to, I don't have a choice, that's the life of a mom. I just don't know what more to do to get this point across to him, no matter how I try he just gets pissed off. His parents have even talked to him about it but he doesn't listen, he just keeps making excuses. I'm so fed up with it all.
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I'm a sahm so I do everything without asking day and night.. and after a while he saw I wouldn't complain and he didn't get much time with the baby . he began getting up himself to help or even after getting home from work. but not once did I ask him because I understand he brings the money home and needs to relax and everything but he signed up by himself maybe yours will do the same?
This is seriously my life right now. Our daughter has colic so she's more of a pain to care for. My husband has zero patience with EVERYTHING. I honestly get worried when he's frustrated with her.
I know it's hard. My boyfriend was doing the same thing. I got him to start helping by not letting him do anything. I didn't even let him touch the baby. He started feeling like he missed his baby and begged me to let him help.
@kacismom, @myjulyprincesseli I've been considering doing the same thing, just doing everything myself and waiting to see if he comes around. @inkedmomma yeah I feel the same way whenever he has him at night because I'm afraid he's gonna be too rough with him or get too fed up with him and he's gonna end up hurt or something, he would never intentionally hurt me or our son but he needs medication to function each day and without it he really doesn't have much control of his body. @kacismom @myjulyprincesseli @inkedmomma. and what I hate the most is after he gets this way, a few hours later he comes to me all apologetically and just expects me to get over it and I used to be able to but since it's literally and every day thing, sorry just doesn't cut it anymore, especially after the cops got called on us a couple weeks ago because someone called and reported a possible domestic dispute because we were arguing at 230am... it was no where near that bad... we were just kind of loud.