mini rant: I feel like my husband wants to help but obviously can't I guess. he has sleep well over double what I have since baby boys birthday 3/4/16. my husband helps during the day but seriously is soooo useless at night. I can't get our son to successfully sleep in his bassinet for more than 15 min. . but if he is on someone he sleeps for 2 or 3 hours. and I just wanted 1 damn hour of good sleep. so I woke him up and asked him to focus on baby only for like 1 hour. . he says yes. then lays back down to! does nothing to help.
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Men need it spelled out sometimes...I would just politely say I need some sleep so I can take care of our child...can you please take them into the living room and watch them while I sleep a couple hours. If that doesn't work in the morning when he's awake I'd have a serious talk about your needs.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Subject = husbands/s.o.
Does your s.o help with baby at night? Like, oh idk with feedings? Haha Mine tries to but he gets up early for work so I guess that opts him out of caring for baby at night? I'm a sahm currently. It's the weekend and my husband can sleep through our sons crying on the baby monitor that is on my husbands night stand lol on loud!!! I knew he slept like a hibernating bear but how in the world can he sleep through such a thing? I can't believe it. And he was totally suppose...
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Почему дни рождения так тяжелы?
My baby is 2 today!! I literally cried myself to sleep last night snuggling with him. (yeah, I let him sleep in my bed last night bc I he wanted to & I wanted him to) lol
Why are birthdays so hard for meeee?! 😭😭😭
^^ Yess seriously. Men really don't understand the emotional and physical strain we go through. It's like I just gave birth, I'm still emotionally/ physically healing from that and now I'm trying to learn along side a baby who is still brandy new to this world. Just breath. Let your baby sleep the best way your baby sleeps it's okay. But remember to breath and communication i know it's so hard especially when they don't understand.