@aidensmamma, @brittanycheri well an episiotomy is when they cut from the end of your vagina down towards your b-hole. They don't cut your cervix.

no mam that is why they do a episiotomy when the shoulders don't fit my very first had football shoulders they had to cut me

I thought it stretched for the shoulders?

@brittanycheri, probably not! The baby's head is the biggest part of its body. On average it's head is about 10cm.

It stretches more for the baby too right?! This is why I have opted for an epidural lol

@emmarosemommy, no love! That's how big your cervix will get. At 10 cm they tell you to begin pushing.

@hermommy, @brittanycheri yep. That's how big your cervix gets when you're ready to start pushing.

does that go inside of you?

Oh man!! But that's the cervix correct?

something about just isn't setting right lol

@kellynicole, to top it off, my midwife was telling my fiancé, "yeah, it's like a bowling ball" lmao. She's so sweet.

Noooooo 😣😣😣😣