so I'm having my third child. the other 2 are 12 and 13. I haven't ever had a baby shower. it kind of depresses me that no one has ever felt loving enough to do that for me and my little. I know it sounds selfish, but I just feel like I have missed out. it's not for the gifts. it's for the celebration of baby. sorry the weirdest things have been getting to me. just needed to vent
I'm gonna organize my own baby shower because I want to have one and want to be the one planning and making everything the way I want to, it's about you, it's like having a birthday party, you could throw your own or wait until somebody throws you one which might never happen. I'm throwing it so my friends can see my big belly and eat some cake and have fun one more time before I become a mommy so hey, if you want one, just make one yourself :))) there is nothing stopping you but you