I'm gonna organize my own baby shower because I want to have one and want to be the one planning and making everything the way I want to, it's about you, it's like having a birthday party, you could throw your own or wait until somebody throws you one which might never happen. I'm throwing it so my friends can see my big belly and eat some cake and have fun one more time before I become a mommy so hey, if you want one, just make one yourself :))) there is nothing stopping you but you

sounds like me it's feels good that people care and want to do for you my family isn't like that but my husbands family wants to though a baby shower I didn't have one with my 1st but it's just nice to have that kind of caring/loving people