so I'm having my third child. the other 2 are 12 and 13. I haven't ever had a baby shower. it kind of depresses me that no one has ever felt loving enough to do that for me and my little. I know it sounds selfish, but I just feel like I have missed out. it's not for the gifts. it's for the celebration of baby. sorry the weirdest things have been getting to me. just needed to vent