Ughhh HELP ME !!! I still have feelings for my child's father and I think I want to work things out with him ... Only thing being is my family doesn't like him :(
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I'm back home from the hospital. It was a really long and hard weekend.I had my sweet baby boy. These are some of his things they gave him. That's the little hat they put on him and the little blanket they wrapped him up in. They also gave us the bear and keepsake box for his things.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Am I seeing things....
Carrisa Cole·
I do live at home ... @torymarrero
Jytte Birden·
В ожидании первенца
Your family don't matter. It's your life your decision not theirs they will get over it
Tory Marrero·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
Me and my husband had a like 6 month break up prior to getting back together then having a baby ect I just made sure it was what I wanted and what made me happy. My family didn't like it at first but they all adore him again now they just want to see you happy and not hurting. It helps to keep details from them that just cause problems if you plan on sticking it out. Especially since you're having a baby I would say if you want to be with him it's more important to focus on your own family you made then worring about their opinions. Obviously if you financially rely on family or live at home etc then that's a different story because you don't want to be disrespectful. Just my opinion. Your happiness and your child's is the more important than a few upset people who will likely forgive you in time (-:
Carrisa Cole·
I wish my family was understanding ... @torymarrero
Tory Marrero·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
Family gets over things either way it's your child's father and he's going to be in their life if he wants to so they'll have to deal with him. Mine as well be happy yourself if you want to be with him.