I'm not happy here at all. Living with my grandparents. I don't feel welcome here anymore. I just…
I'm not happy here at all. Living with my grandparents. I don't feel welcome here anymore. I just feel like a burden. And more and more my grandma is treating Dakota (my fiance) like he's stupid. When he has been working his butt off every day. We both get up at 4:30 am so I can take him to work. And he works hard. He was so exhausted today and still he worked and hardly complained. They expect us to pay my aunt back money we owe and my dad wants $25 a month we owe him and on top of it for us to save and get an apartment. The cheapest apartment doesn't even have one bedroom and its $525 a month. And that doesn't include the electric bill. I can't work as hard as I used to. And I want to so bad to help Dakota but I physically cant without almost passing out. And if we can't provide for ourselves how are we going to provide for a baby? How do people do it? I don't understand. I feel so lost. I just want to get away from everything and everyone.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
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I didn't have a baby until I could afford it for this very reason..
Sarah·
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@gcpaschal our baby wasn't planned.
Ana·
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my baby wasn't planned but I found the way to help out my husband so that we could have our own stuff, I worked 5 months while pregnant, yes I know is hard but God will give u the strength to overcome this, I know is hard to not stress out but try to stay calmed for your baby, once ur gone from grandparents house they will regret not being nice to you
Gwendolyn Paschal·
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Yeah I kind of figured that. I mean it's time to get down to what it's going to take to keep your heads above water. It's probably going to be hard because you're already owing people money. Can you hurry and pay them? Can you work part time? Can you work from home? What are you going to do about a babysitter or will you be a stay at home Mom?
Sarah·
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@gcpaschal I'm working part time and my fiance is working full time. we pay people back so much we can't save any money. And then random crap pops up like my car blowing a tire or just whatever on top everything else. we pay my car payment and Insurance too.
Jytte Birden·
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Nobody is completely ready for a baby no matter how much they plan for it. God don't put nothing on u that u cannot bare everything is going to workout things may seem like it's going wrong and u may feel lost but watch how everything fall into place when u least expect it. Just have faith, pray, and stay positive even when it seems so hard y'all will be fine just smile thru it mama
missing41user·
Мама троих детей
I know exactly how you're feeling. it isn't easy. somehow you have to find your own way to make it happen. no one but you can. and no one else will. you have to get creative sometimes and think outside the box. I'm in the same situation except I have 3 children and no husband. We don't all have an easy life and we are only required to do one day at a time. So don't pressure yourself but take it one step at a time
missing41user·
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@gcpaschal I hope you can see how your comments and questions are far from helpful. You easily could have not even said anything if you weren't going to be positive.
Sarah·
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@queeneden im really trying. im doing everything i know to do.
Amy Sanchez·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)
y'all don't have income based place there
Sarah·
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@amymabundio we do but I haven't been able to find many. I'm going to look further into it tomorrow.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
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If you look at my comments as negative then that's you. I can type what I feel. I'm asking questions because for me, I just try to figure out how to get me out of the situation as quickly as possible. I go right into resolution. I'm upfront about some things. Not everyone will comment the way others do. It doesn't mean it's from a negative place.