I just have a hard time understanding how you call yourself someone's best friend then disappear but…

I slowly lost all my friends when I moved away pregnant trust you'll make ones that will last soon and you need to get your money back girl

it's like when so called friends owe money they rather disappear than to either keep the friendship going or paying back...current situation with a so called best friend..and I did a huge favor for her but oh well karma is a aho..m

@taiboos_mommy16, I'm trying to figure out how to go about it because I'm still very emotional. We have been friends for 13 years. I know if I bring up the money situation right now I may not communicate my side effectively. I'm praying for more genuine people to come my way.

@izaid_mommy, yes karma will show its rear end! I even told her I needed it to go towards baby items. I just don't understand how you do someone you're supposed to care about like that.

@daydreamingofsleep, I know exactly what you are feeling girl. the anger,sadness and the frustration...I guess some people just take advantage of your kindness. not caring about the consequences or how it's making you feel...keep your head up girl and hopefully you get all your money back or at least most of it so you can get your baby's things.

@izaid_mommy, thanks! At this point it's more about principle than the money. I just hope no one does her like that. I'm going to keep on going and improving my life.

she's going to end up realizing that she made a big mistake losing a good person as yourself. she'll be back though when she's need of a friend thats how it usually works but just remember that you can't always trust everyone...

@izaid_mommy, yea I keep thinking about that and how I would handle that. She lost all trust. I don't think I want to be cordial. I much rather she acts like she doesn't know me because I obviously don't know her.

I know exactly what you mean girl. it's sad but we gotta do what we gotta do.