need to rant!!!!! I'm 30+6 days and I have really bad anxiety and I didn't want anyone at the birth except my other…
need to rant!!!!! I'm 30+6 days and I have really bad anxiety and I didn't want anyone at the birth except my other half, but he has now invited his family to it and I am very stressed because I font get on with all of them, my other half says it's cruel not to let them see her but I saw it as it's not fair on me as I will be very overwhelmed and tired ect, I'm I being unfair or not? thank you in advance for any help x
sp28346·
You're not, just have to put your foot down. yes it is a family member being born but it's also you staying in hospital undergoing something major!!! which totally outweighs them wanting to see the baby, they can see the baby a few days later but you potentially will take weeks to recover if you're stressed and tired because of them x
Alicia·
This isn't a spectator sport if you don't feel comfortable her should respect that this is stressful enough without adding to it! Xx
Yasmin·
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Not at all..I couldn't imagine having a load of ppl watching me give birth, plus wouldn't want to share that experience with anyone but my husband. It's an extremely stressful time for you as it is you don't need added stress, explain to your partner how you feel about it and your reasons why you don't feel comfortable with it. I'm sure he will understand where your coming from. good luck Xx