OK, I need to vent and I hope I can get some advice. So feel free to comment. I've been with my fiance for for almost two years. And I love this man so much. Lately I've been feeling like he isnt happy. In a big way I know it's because my sister is living with us. This was a decision we both made for her to come and stay with us so she can get on her feet, but she is really making it difficult to deal with her and her issues. I love my sister, but this is putting my relationship at odds cause for the past few days he's been so different. Every time I turn around it's more complaining than the usual and his attitude is too much to handle. I'm really trying to figure out how to deal with this cause this is really hurting me more than anything.
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@mzdiva916 set some boundaries if you haven't already. If she can't abide by them, let her know that it will cut her stay(in your house) short. She's gotta show and prove she can respect you and your fiancées space if she wants to continue living in it. Even if its temporary.
@sylviaimani, since she's been with us she doesn't understand boundries. She walks into my bedroom without knocking. I have an apartment with two bathrooms. She refuses to use the front bathroom. She has made our bathroom into hers. She has a sleeping disorder so she doesn't sleep for a few days and in that time she gets up through the night and eat. Me and my fiance have our dates during the day and sometimes at night time. @mami1212, I will give it to her she has been looking for a job. Non stop. We both have. She will work. @mama_uhv_4 my fiancé isn't a cheater. He loves me and my kids. We both have been through a lot in past relationships.
Besides her staying there making it difficult, what else is she doing that could be causing a bigger issue? Try talking to your fiancé about maybe having a date night so you guys can get some alone time away from your sister. I'm sure he just misses it being you two.
@mzdiva916, I'm sorry but if she isn't trying to get on her feet then she needs to exit out and find somewhere else to go... I don't like anyone regardless if they are family living in my house it causes friction which is unnecessary...
dont wanna say the worst thing but from my past experience i was in the same situation and ended up finding out he was cheating on me with her
I'm doing that when I get home cause I tried to be sympathetic to hee since she lost her son over a year ago. But as I remind her I lost a baby too. And being as though they we're far in age( my daughter was 15 months old, her son was 19 years old)apart in age my baby was like her baby but in different ages.