This momma is tired . My whole body hurts . Worked a double today . Made good tips but omg . Server problems
@1sttimemommie, you're right, it's really not a big deal and I should just be excited. Thank you :)
@taylornelson, the way I see it there will always be people that judge (trust me I know what you are saying since my boyfriend and I aren't married either) but I always bring the conversation back to the baby if it's brought up that I'm not married. "No we aren't married right now but we know that one day we will be but for right now we are focusing all our money and energy on this little miracle" *hand place on belly*
I do that too . My mom owns the restaurant and before she bought it out from the previous owners I worked there so we have a lot of regulars and they of course see me and my belly lol . Been working there on and off since I was 18 . I lived in NC for 4 years and recently moved back for awhile until we move to California and so a lot of the regulars ask about my life basically and where I've been . My husband is in the military and we have a lot of veterans they tip me well . I have a pic of my husband in his dress blues in my book .
@1sttimemommie, duh! Why didn't I think of that? Honestly I'm raised in the Bible Belt of Tennessee and I'm not married, my boyfriend and I have been together 4 years I just feel like I'll be looked at differently :(
Oh I'm always talking about my baby to people as much as possible "baby brain" is the most magic excuse for forgetting to bring something to the table lol @taylornelson
@1sttimemommie, me too! I can't bring myself to just bring it up yet, still new and surreal, but I can't wait till I'm showing. All the preggies at work make bank lol
Ya I used to work 3-4 doubles a week but I just couldn't do it anymore now that I'm 16 weeks pregnant. Though I'm ready for my big belly to get the "pregnancy tips" @taylornelson 😂
@couponmom, that would be so nice! @1sttimemommie, I used to work 5 doubles a week now I'm only 10 weeks pregnant and they're already killing me!
That was my yesterday luckily today and the next two days I only am serving the night shift!
Don't let people get to you because as moms we know our babies are the most special and precious things in our lives ❤️ @taylornelson