Sometimes I feel like Im the only one who enjoys our baby moving my stomach around... My husband…
Sometimes I feel like Im the only one who enjoys our baby moving my stomach around... My husband doesnt put his head there, he doesnt talk to the baby, he doesnt feel for his kicks.. I sometimes want to cry cause I wonder if he really wants this baby, or if hes just accepting the fact that he made a mistake and I hope he doesnt feel that way but he doesnt show me otherwise.. He says he rather see ultrasounds but then complains when he has to even take me to an appointment.. like he doesnt care.. Is he lying?.. :(
Savannah·
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You took the words right out my mouth I'm going the it to. It's very hurtful and stressful 😓
Christa Moore·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
My husband is like that with this pregnancy but I talked to him about it and it's because when our daughter turned a month old his mother passed away and he's upset that she never got to see our two we have now and she won't get to meet our newest one either. He is trying now that I've talked to him. Try talking to him about how you feel it may actually help the situation just my opinion, hope it gets better.
Desiree·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I've always been told that women become mothers when we find out we're pregnant. Men become fathers once the baby arrives. I realized that with my first! Her dad was aloof and sort of "whatever" about the pregnancy, but once our daughter was born, he was a puddle of mush! I hope this is the case for you too! Hang in there, pregnancy IS isolating sometimes.
Danielle Amelia Thomson·
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I just feel that he should be a little more enthusiastic. He was pissed about having to build a crib, he didn't wang to spend all the money on baby stuff, he didn't even want a baby shower, he hardly shows emotion at the ultrasound. We don't have any drastic family problems. He should be happy he is able to have a child, especially a son for his first, just like he wanted. When I told him I feel alone he said he rather see the ultrasounds then feel the movements, but then again he conplains to having to go to them..
Danielle Amelia Thomson·
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I hope this changes when Micah is born