Has anyone else's hubby/bf/spouse lost interest in sex while ur pregnant? I mean he tells me I'm beautiful and all that good stuff everyday multiple times and I've asked him if my pregnancy turns him off and he says absolutely not..I just can't wrap my head around why I'm horny 24/7(I get its my hormones) but he's just not there with me. He owns his own business so he says it's lots of stress and business on his mind and I get it but seriously come on a 5 min quickly wouldn't hurt right? Am I thinking too much into it?
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I wish my husband would lose interest lol...
@expectingprincessno2, What I agreed to when I said I do.
Well at least you have yours. Mine is deployed and I'm about to loose my mind. Lord knows the first pregnancy was all the time I know he is happy he gets a break now that he is gone.
@daniellethomson, ur probably right. thanks for the reassurance ladies @shan548 @abigail_62216 @daniellethomson
I am always horny and I'm 34w2d. I feel a lot of pressure down there and when we do have sex although I want it, it feels like it is swollen and just putting it in feels painful and uncomfortable... He loves it lol he says he feels like he is the biggest guy out there and he jokes about it and doesn't really give me a hard time. He performs a lot of oral sex, like every other day so he is a saint. I wish I could actually perform and please him too. So you seduce him as much as you want since it will come a time when even if you want to, it will hurt.
maybe your man just feels weird about having sex and putting something in there and doesnt wqnt to feel the womb or something so many men get like that for some reason.
@shan548, I'd love to have that spontaneous intimacy but this is our 2nd pregnancy and even tho he says otherwise, I just think me being pregnant won't let him concentrate. That is definitely one of his reasons why we're not as sexually active as prepregnancy. All I can think of is "just a few more months of this" lol But seriously I just want my man!!
My husband wants it all the time and he tries sooooo hard not to get mad to the point of it being a little funny with how he expresses it. He will take any opportunity in a convo with someone if they say about having a good time one night he will go "My sex life is dead" or "Wish I could do that but Fatty over here dont wanna" and hes only joking he never means it and it makes me laugh. I get pain when we try so I cant.
@expectingprincessno2, We save it for home it's just more of a teaser. Try to set up a special night and if he doesn't budge then most likely he isn't comfortable poking the baby which is what my husband calls it lol.
Lol yes!! I know exactly what you mean. I have literally cried because I feel he thinks I'm gross looking or not hot or just not in to me anymore. We have argued about it so many times but then he spoke with his doctor about it and the doctor actually suggested that he does have sex with me and how important it is for him to be intimate and Caring. But do talk to him and tell him how you feel even if it's an every week discussion lol that's how I was
@abigail_62216, yes! that too! It just really puts me in the dumps feeling like I'm being "rejected" or "turned down" even tho he doesn't do it in that manner, I still take it that way. I'm definitely an overthinker so that doesn't help but geeze my head gets hot and I get a headache AND braxton hicks from just being "hot for him" lol
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