Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Forcing an abortion I just had to tell you guys a very funny story. So my bd has been on his period for the past couple of days and has been saying very rude and hurtful things to me. Well today I get a text from him saying I'm getting an abortion January 1 unless I get one before then. And that he won't be reading my texts until then. I'm sorry....this is my body and ultimately this is my decision. You can't force someone to get or do something they don't want to get. I just had to laugh at that bc he's completely lost his mind.
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@santanna86, hahahaha
Sheria·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I wish my husband would lose interest lol...
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@shan548, that's right 👏❤
Alexius Coker·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
@expectingprincessno2, What I agreed to when I said I do.
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@shan548, aww wow ur a pretty strong woman.
Alexius Coker·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
Well at least you have yours. Mine is deployed and I'm about to loose my mind. Lord knows the first pregnancy was all the time I know he is happy he gets a break now that he is gone.
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@daniellethomson, ur probably right. thanks for the reassurance ladies @shan548 @abigail_62216 @daniellethomson
Naily·
I am always horny and I'm 34w2d. I feel a lot of pressure down there and when we do have sex although I want it, it feels like it is swollen and just putting it in feels painful and uncomfortable... He loves it lol he says he feels like he is the biggest guy out there and he jokes about it and doesn't really give me a hard time. He performs a lot of oral sex, like every other day so he is a saint. I wish I could actually perform and please him too. So you seduce him as much as you want since it will come a time when even if you want to, it will hurt.
Danielle Amelia Thomson·
В ожидании первенца
maybe your man just feels weird about having sex and putting something in there and doesnt wqnt to feel the womb or something so many men get like that for some reason.
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@shan548, I'd love to have that spontaneous intimacy but this is our 2nd pregnancy and even tho he says otherwise, I just think me being pregnant won't let him concentrate. That is definitely one of his reasons why we're not as sexually active as prepregnancy. All I can think of is "just a few more months of this" lol But seriously I just want my man!!
Danielle Amelia Thomson·
В ожидании первенца
My husband wants it all the time and he tries sooooo hard not to get mad to the point of it being a little funny with how he expresses it. He will take any opportunity in a convo with someone if they say about having a good time one night he will go "My sex life is dead" or "Wish I could do that but Fatty over here dont wanna" and hes only joking he never means it and it makes me laugh. I get pain when we try so I cant.
Alexius Coker·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
@expectingprincessno2, We save it for home it's just more of a teaser. Try to set up a special night and if he doesn't budge then most likely he isn't comfortable poking the baby which is what my husband calls it lol.
Nayroby Gonzalez·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Lol yes!! I know exactly what you mean. I have literally cried because I feel he thinks I'm gross looking or not hot or just not in to me anymore. We have argued about it so many times but then he spoke with his doctor about it and the doctor actually suggested that he does have sex with me and how important it is for him to be intimate and Caring. But do talk to him and tell him how you feel even if it's an every week discussion lol that's how I was
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@shan548, girl I wish lol I really do wish I could.
julia·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@abigail_62216, yes! that too! It just really puts me in the dumps feeling like I'm being "rejected" or "turned down" even tho he doesn't do it in that manner, I still take it that way. I'm definitely an overthinker so that doesn't help but geeze my head gets hot and I get a headache AND braxton hicks from just being "hot for him" lol
Alexius Coker·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
I surprise my husband at work. Being he's always busy a surprise always excites me.
Nayroby Gonzalez·
Мама сына (7 лет)
My husband did and he swears he didn't lol but they say it's due to them having fear of feeling the baby move and feeling like they might hurt you since we always complain about something 😏