my so is being a complete d@#k to me and my daughter today.. i was at the doctors yesterday for…
my so is being a complete d@#k to me and my daughter today.. i was at the doctors yesterday for severe contractions and stomach pains and im only 29 weeks im 1/2 cm dialiated and im stressed out about everything because of it. i also have to work a 10 hour shift today and im still in so much pain and still having contractions today so i hurt ALOT and because of that i cant pick up my daughter on the couch or up the stairs or over the baby gate and hes flipping on me because im "being lazy " and i "never do anything around the house" he just got fired/laid off so hes just sitting at home all day on the couch playing video games... why am i expected to do everything and still not allowed to act like im in pain or tired or anything but he can be tired from just sitting on the couch... he dosent understand whats happening with me and why im so hurt none of this ever happened with me daughter so its stressing me out which js making everything 10 times worse i know. but he just started screaming at my 18 month old because she accidently spilt his soda ... i bitched at him and told him it was his fault for leaving it out where she can knock it over. and he yells sayi g i need to find another way to work because hes not taking a stupid bitch like me anywhere and it just escalated from there... im sick kf feeling this way all the time i dont know what i shoudl do anytmore i cant talk to my family about any of this because they have never like my so and i have no girlfriends to talk to . anyone else ever been thru this ??
Stasja·
В ожидании первенца
he's an asshole. either he gets a job and helps out or you're probably better off getting a break from him. I'm surprised that you're going to work today, you should be resting for a few days!
brianna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
i dont want to be at work i would much rather stay at home but my doctor said i could go back as lo g as i took it easy and sence im the only one working i have to othr wise we wont be able to afford rent:/ . and im dropping my daughter off with my parents so he can sit and sulk by himself. it sucks that hes acting this way because its never been this bad weve been together for 4 years.. im just so overwhelmed with everything that has happened recently i dont know how to handel it all . @stasjafawn
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
he's being an asshat.. you may be better off taking a break for a bit.... I would get a note from your Dr and have some time to rest after having bad contractions (I was taken off work at 30 weeks because I have having contractions strong enough to warrant an overnight in the hospital with my first baby)
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I say if you can stay with your parents for a short time, even if it's just a few days
brianna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@sarahdrew, my doctor said they were there but they wernt strong enough to go to hospital so she said just take jt easy and if it dosent stop then to go in.
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I am sending you prayers mama, I hope they don't get too bad and you can take it somewhat easy at work (not sure if your job requires a lot of strenuous work)
brianna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
i work at a pharmacy so it shouldn't be too bad but thank you@sarahdrew :)
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
you are welcome, hopefully not too bad today
Mimi·
Best thing to do is not over work and no stress harder than it sounds I've been 1cm dilated and 50% effaced since 24 weeks and let me tell you I was afraid especially after being in the hospital for days