So I think my relationship is slipping threw my fingers... My boyfriend has been really distant from…
So I think my relationship is slipping threw my fingers... My boyfriend has been really distant from me the past week or so and I've brought it to his attention and he corrects it for a day maybe 2 and it goes back to him not wanting alone time and giving everybody besides me his attention. Well tonight I brought it up again and he told me I should be giving all my attention to our daughter. (Given she cries I drop what I'm doing and go to her) but if I stop trying to keep a romantic relationship we won't have one.... What do I do?
Nicole·
I think it goes both ways. You can keep trying but if he doesn't there's not much you can do. Good luck!
missing738user·
Мама дочки (8 лет)
Reverse psychology, act like u dont give a shit, go about ur business with ur baby , find things to do, act like it doesn't bother u..see if that catches his attention
kittypink·
Мама подростка
sometimes it's normal for men to change during pregnancy it affects them too I've learned to give my bd his space and not annoy him I know it sucks but hopefully he comes around on his own rather then me pushing him to all the time
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
Honestly, he wants space. I know it's hard to hear. Guys need to know they can do things without having someone constantly asking them what they are doing and wanting their attention 24/7. If you give him the space he needs, and not bitchy like above comment like ignoring him, then he will chill out. I don't know the whole story so it is hard to judge. Like I said he may need space. Most guys do not like the feeling of having to make someone happy all the time because they also want to do things or do thing with others that make them happy. My sister is going through something like this and wants all of his time and energy when they need some space if you hold on too much. Find a hobby, friends, or something outside of the relationship to because that's important than putting all of your happiness on them. Then it will get better and you guys can move forward. Good luck! Relationships are hard.
Nicole Alison·
Мама дочки-младенца
@nicoli_e1, @lala917 I've tried that I've acted like I didn't care I went an entire day without even trying to talk to him and ya he texted me but it was just like yes no what do you want for dinner, not an actual conversation starter... @kittypink that's what I'm hoping for as well @mommastone I understand what you mean but my only issue is I don't bother him during the day all I ask for is time before bed even if he just cuddles me for 10-15 minutes which I don't think is a lot. I feel like if he needs his space then I should just go to my moms because at least there I wouldn't feel alone :/
Nicole·
It depends on your guys relationship. Playing games is adding fuel. I think you should just ask him once. "Hey is there something wrong, are you ok? Is there anything I can do?" And whatever he says go with it. Give him time to come around and come to you when he is ready. And if he doesn't. Fuck him lmao jk.