for 4 years I have been told I could not have children. when we found out that we were expecting a miracle the first person I rang was my brother. we used to be very close until he met his fiancee and see tends to think of me as competition so whatever I do she needs to do better etc. I moved to England and our relationship is more distance but when I rang him he actually cried as he was so happy for us (it was his little girls 1st birthday so he knows how special kids are). who did you tell first? xx