My boyfriend thinks I'm pushing him away when I'm just pregnant and emotional why can't men understand that? he says I make him out to be a bad guy when I don't and he says I yell at him when I don't. I'm crying because I'm over emotional and he says I ruined his day like I'm sorry but you honestly don't understand
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I don't smoke weed. So I guess I will never understand. But I'm not sure why people smoke weed when they're pregnant!
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Shantel·
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@courtney017, aww. that's sweet
Courtney·
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@jaklynsmommy He just texted me and told me to chill and that he loves me more. I texted back and told him that he means the world to me
Shantel·
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@courtney017, I'm sorry hopefully be figures out soon your not trying to be cranky even when your cranky.
Courtney·
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@schu35 it's very frustrating
Courtney·
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@jaklynsmommy he's not really being a jerk he's just used to women treating him badly I guess.
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I am dealing with this exactly. My bf has 4 other kids you think he would understand..but nope! Men just don't understand everything that we are going theough
Shantel·
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@courtney017, well he doesn't need to be cranky with you about it. Be patient with him,but at the same time don't let him be a jerk to you.
Courtney·
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@jaklynsmommy I tell him all the time. it will be a year on fourth of July so he's not used to being with anyone else. plus his mom just up and moved out yesterday and didn't tell anyone so I know he's pissed about that.
Shantel·
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tell him your not her! @courtney017 I hate when women start stuff on purpose.
Courtney·
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@leeyasmommy He said I embarrassed him in front of our friends when she completely understands because she's dealt with pregnant women but he told her I'm doing it on purpose when she knows I'm not.
Courtney·
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@jaklynsmommy he was with her for 6 years and had to deal with it. I'm just really annoyed I don't know how to handle it
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yes I completely understand, I wished men understand where we came from ,
Courtney·
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yes. this is the first time he has dealt with a pregnant women and his ex has yelled and started fights with him on purpose and that's all he's used to. It just hurts because he doesn't want to listen to my side.
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Have you explained to him your not doing on of that on purpose and that you have no control