Married mamas I need help 😧😧😧 I love my fiance. I really do. More than anything in the world. We are…

It honestly depends on what you're arguing about. You'll still argue in a marriage but you want to make sure it's not serious. Marriage is a big step. Do you already live with each other?

if it's small things like the trash or something like that u have 2 remember ur have a small child ur under stress then add getting married on that u need 2 that u out of it & think if this was my best friend would I still say ok get married b4 u do it

Yeah we have lived together about 2 years. We're in the process of buying our first house too. We argue but it's always stupid, like he's never once been mean to me, not ever. But he's got some road rage when he drives. Not like speeding up or threatening anyone he just kinda yells to himself (then he's usually over it) and generally it's OK but today I just couldn't bite my tongue and I had to say how ridiculous it was (when I really guess it wasn't even that ridiculous) which made him mad I was being rude.

or a few days ago we got in a fight over the interpreted meaning of a lyric in a song. I don't even remember what one it was so unimportant but we fought for half a day. We've never been like this @junesmommy15

How much time have y'all had without the baby together?

@bbyenolan22, if you can't remember the details of the argument it's definitely something silly. Disagreements happen and no one likes them but they are nothing to worry about. My husband and I have been married a year and together for 4 but we still have little petty arguments here and there. We just make sure we don't go to bed mad and we don't get up in he morning upset at one another either. We had a falling out earlier today but once he came home from work things were good again, that's how small it was. What you need to do is think of all the pros and cons in your relationship and about him. Im getting the feeling that the pros list is definitely longer. Take a moment and sit down and tell him how you feel. And if he's already shown you who he is for over 2 years, that's very unlikely to change with marriage.

none really. A few hours here or there but only when we're working on the construction at the house 😩 @junesmommy15

Thanks. The pro list is definitely bigger I think I must just be nervous @raegenice

@bbyenolan22, it's definitely okay to be nervous. I sure was. This is the person you're committing to spending your life with. The nerves went away when I realized my husband was THE one I wanted to spend my life with. He's my best friend & no one compares to him.

I think it's just normal stuff. You two need to have more time together with just the both of you.

I've been with my husband going on 10 years and married almost 4. This is the most time we went without time to ourselves. When you have a baby, you have to remember to get time together