Julia Stillinger
mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Maybe I'm wrong, but I feel like if natural safe things like sex, and walking don't induce labor then chances are baby isn't ready to come yet.😕 Why not just let your baby come on their own, unless your doctor induces you because you're over 40 weeks or other medical reasons...

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Yes! You are absolutely right!! No problem! @momma_2_batbaby

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momma_2_batbaby
Jasmine·Мама подростка

it's still oh so scary but I know I need to worry about little guy and not mommy. mommy can get better once he's here!! thank you so much

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry! I will be praying for you and your little one! God has his hands on you and your doctors, and if that's what's best for you and baby then that's what needs to be done!❤️ @momma_2_batbaby

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momma_2_batbaby
Jasmine·Мама подростка

it is extremely dangerous for me to carry full term. I have seizures and they're getting worse and worse. in two weeks I've counted 3 full blown ones and 25 ones that my mom noticed that's not including ones that I know I have at night.

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Why are they taking your baby early? If you don't mind me asking. @momma_2_batbaby

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momma_2_batbaby
Jasmine·Мама подростка

I got so upset when they told me that they're taking my baby early. I'm so nervous!!

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

My friend had her baby at 37 weeks exactly, but her water broke, and her baby came on her own! She didn't try and self induce whatsoever! Her baby was just ready to come! In that case, that's perfectly fine, and healthy, but I agree with you girl! I normally don't get into things like this either but it just bothered me tonight! @momma_2_batbaby

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missing98user
missing98user·Мама сына-младенца

@emily18234, It's really no problem❤️

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momma_2_batbaby
Jasmine·Мама подростка

a lot of people are leading woman to believe 37 weeks is full term. it is not at all. but I just learned to shut up about this because everyone says I wrong lol. I think forcing a baby that's not ready is wrong!!

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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков

@junesmommy15, not at all! I'm sorry

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missing98user
missing98user·Мама сына-младенца

@emily18234, Ok fine. I just thought you had it in your mind that I was complaining about it.

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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков

@junesmommy15, no!!! I didn't even read what you said

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missing98user
missing98user·Мама сына-младенца

@emily18234, you're not talking to me right? @harperkatesmommy it really doesn't matter to me anywho because I got induced at 40+3. I guess I was just seeing where they come from because I've wanted to hurry up and have the baby.

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cnewell23
Crystal·Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

I think it not so much of getting tired but more of getting anxious to meet your baby. Plus sometimes just waiting on baby to come just doesn't work.. if I waited on my first son He probably would have came around 50 weeks lol Sometime your body doesn't want to "work" so to speak. Anyways speaking from experience every pregnancy is different yes you know it'll be 9 months but when you have complications throughout your entire you get to the point were you just want your baby out. If this pregnancy was anything like my first I would not have any issues waiting for him to come on his own but with gd, braxton hicks and now the threat of preclamcyia. I will GLADLY say I am one of those women who is at the point of trying anything just so I don't have to be induced again or have to worry about a c section.

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Wow! I bet! I can only imagine. I'd probably be the same way. @jamielynn07

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jamielynn07
jamielynn07·Мама подростка, беременна (30 нед.)

He was a huge baby and I cried the last week every day lol @harperkatesmommy I didn't try to self induce as much as I wanted to because I was too miserable to move off the couch haha

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Oh my goodness. Even if you did have an easy pregnancy, and you were just tired of being pregnant, or want your body back, that's no excuse to try things that could harm you or your baby! I say the same thing! I can't wait for July, because I can't! I'm excited, and I'm ready to hold her, but I want her to come when she's ready! Yes, pregnancy is not easy for most, and people should know what they're getting themselves into having sex and getting pregnant! @emily18234

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Oh my goodness! That's a really long time! You're a real trooper! Lol. @jamielynn07

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

I understand, I already feel like I'm "miserable" I'm so uncomfortable all the time, and I know it'll only get harder, but when you have sex and get pregnant, you know what you're getting yourself into. Lol. No, I think trying to do natural ways like the things you listed are fine! I just don't agree with using things that aren't meant to be put in your body like castor oil. Even if it has been successful for some people, I wouldn't dare try it because of the danger you are putting at risk for yourself and child. @junesmommy15

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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков

and I by no means have had an easy pregnancy. I've been in the hospital so many times, hg, I've never said "I can't wait to not be pregnant". I just say I can't wait for the 23rd. my son was 2 weeks over due. I get it. you get miserable. pregnancy is not easy. sorry someone lied to you

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jamielynn07
jamielynn07·Мама подростка, беременна (30 нед.)

my Dr didn't induce me with my son until 42 weeks because of the holiday..I wanted to die haha.

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Thank you so much, and good for you for feeling that way! He will definitely come when he's ready, and it'll be great!! 😊 @mariahje

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missing98user
missing98user·Мама сына-младенца

I hear you. It's just easy to say but some moms are so miserable. I've tried to induced myself with all natural ways. Never any medicines. Yoga ball, pineapples, sex, walking, etc. Some women just have hard pregnancies and you can't tell them nothing. That's when they run to castor oil because somebody told them it'll work.

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mariahje
Mariah.·В ожидании первенца

I feel this. 38 weeks pregnant and Im still not willing to do anything other than natural remedies to start labor. and im not really stressing about it anyways, he'll be ready when the time is right!

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

Well that's why I said if there's a medical reason that is different. Have you talked to your doctor about inducing you if baby doesn't come soon? I would much rather have a doctor induce me then try other things if he or she feels it's needed. I'm not trying to be rude, or mean. Just trying to understand where you're coming from. @mommyandbabyk

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

😊 @emily18234 I agree! You knew it was going to be 9 months of this, why not just wait until baby is ready! @mrshamilton830

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mom__of3
Julia Stillinger·В ожидании первенца

I'm knew to pregnancy also, FTM actually, and 18 years old. I just don't believe in doing things that have had repeatedly caused negative side effects and problems. I just don't understand why someone would do that knowing that some of the things people are doing to try and start labor could hurt them or their baby. I would want my baby girl here now if she could be, but I want her to come on her own time when she's ready.❤️ @junesmommy15

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mommyandbabyk

Because some people have issues with there pregnancy. Everyone pregnancy is different. I've been in prodromal labor for the past month.

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mrshamilton830
Nesha·Мама троих детей

you been miserable this long a few more weeks will not kill you

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missing98user
missing98user·Мама сына-младенца

Because lots of women are new to pregnancy and ready to have those babies. I was like that. It's easier for me to say that now that I know. I tried everything too though. Only because I didn't know.

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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков

thaaaaank yooooou

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