He is so selfish... I have felt bad all day sick and hurting and really tired and we go to my moms to get money for my…

Then make the best choice for them. Everything they know about life they're learning right now from you. Both of your actions shape how things are "supposed to be" in your child's mind

@telliey, those thoughts go through my head often I have had him arrested once before for DV when we first met because we were on drugs but were clean now. I feel at times all I have is my kids

I didn't mean to put "all too often" belay that part

You shouldn't have to live in a constant state of stress. Any social worker looking at your situation would call it abuse. You deserve better. With a young child and one on the way there are plenty of programs available to help you get a job, housing, and child care. You don't have to deal with this. Staying is a choice. You should seriously look into other options. What if he play fights one day and actually hurts your baby because he didn't listen when you said stop? What if you're in dire need of medical attention but he doesn't want to go because he's not finished playing with his friends? Please don't let your situation become a worst case scenario because "some days he's ok". That's how women wind up dead. I don't mean to be dramatic, but I've lost a friend due to DV and it started off very similar to what you post all too often...

@angiek, not really I have my mom which doesn't care to much for me. and my dad and stepmom which if I needed it they would help but I was a problem child growing up and put them through a lot. and I told myself before I met my husband I wasn't gonna just up and leave like I did my first marriage. I'm just 24 BTW will be 25 in may. it's like some days he is OK and happy then he snaps

Honey I say run run as fast as you can. You don't need that in your life. Stress isn't good for you or the baby.

@dueaugust17th2016, your situation sounds even worse than I imagined. I really hate that you are dealing with all this...do you have any family or friends that could help you?

@angiek, thank you it actually means alot to me that someone cares iv had an horrible day actually horrible week. He has yelled at me he calls me a whore play fights to hard and won't stop when I say to I cry atleast once everyday and he don't care he gets hateful and says what the he'll you crying about now... I spend my day taking care of a very hyper and fussy 16 month old (ours) and a 12 year old (his) with an horrible attitude. while he sits on his ass and bitches

@dueaugust17th2016, it just breaks my heart to hear the names he's calling you & being so selfish.....I had a tough day at work but this puts things in perspective. We all have to do what's best for our babies. My husband is worried I'm stressing too much at work and I'm worried you are too stressed from being treated the way you are

@calieshe, , thanks if I even tried to talk to him he would yell and leave for awhile we have had this talk but it hasn't worked hellfire I even cheated on him because of this and him controlling me and her said he would change.. I have he has not

@angiek, @jas727 I'm trying really hard I mean I'm hurting pretty bad I have all week and feeling nauseas, I want to leave him but I feel I'm being stopped by something.

😕 sorry to hear that. I had a hard time with my boyfriend when I first learned I was pregnant and we've worked hard (mostly me) to get to where we are now. And it's still a lot of work. Be positive though. Think of the baby.... And tell him this is NOT cool. I really had to go in on my boyfriend a few times.

Whoa. I don't even know what to say that is all SO wrong ☹️

@jas727, Yeah it is I wanna scream at him and more but its taking.all I have to remain calm