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Aliyah
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I literally am the most miserable I've ever been. I am 39 weeks, 60% effaced but she hasn't dropped and I'm not dilated.…

I literally am the most miserable I've ever been. I am 39 weeks, 60% effaced but she hasn't dropped and I'm not dilated. My ribs feel like they're breaking, and I'm SO sick of everyone telling me it will be worth it, or that she will come when she's ready. Obviously I know that. I just don't need to keep hearing it. My doctor says if nothing has changed by my due date (March 10th) he would wait until March 17th to induce me.... That's 14 more days of this, 14 more days of feeling this way. I literally CANNOT handle that. I've been doing everything to "naturally induce" myself. Nothing. Nothing is working. I seriously never want to do this again.

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chunkymonkey9115

MIchelle Ingle

Мама сына-младенца

but it will be all worth it

aliyah_a

Aliyah

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I asked if he really had to wait a whole week after my due date, then he said that if he induced me and I'm still not dilated that would increase my chances of a c-section by 50% or something like that idk I was just emotional and started crying after he said not till the 17th.

julesmama20

Allison

Мама дочки-младенца

@aliyah_a, I was scheduled to be induced at 41 weeks...and my obgyn said now watch her come on her own...and about 2 days before I was supposed to go in I was having contractions and then I was finally dilating and I had my daughter on the day I was supposed to be induced

michellevaldez4750

Michelle Valdez

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

yeah, that's what I said after my 1st 2nd and 3rd kids! :) you'll see, I know it's really uncomfortable and even painful the last few months but when you hold your child in your arms you forget all of that! If we didn't forget the human race would've died out a LONG time ago! lol

Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside…

Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights

What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready,…

What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?