thanks girl. I know it will all work out, it just stresses me out, I'm 7 months with my lil boy and I never get a break between work and taking care of my niece. and my sister wants to talk about how tired she is.. please!! she's never worked a job, and has the 7 year old she always pawned of on me and my mom and dad, the new baby is the only responsibility she's ever had and I been raising her kid since I was 13. she doesn't understand that she can't tell me what it's like to be tired

Girl, I was the same way! But instead I was raising my brother and sister! I was only 6, trying to take care of a 3 year old and a 1 year old! Both my parents were and still are drunks! I had to grow up fast and take on responsibilities a 6 year old shouldn't of taken on! But I did! I ended up in foster care, while my brother and sister went to live with my grandparents and they still are living there! I'm out of foster care and living with my fiancee and were expecting a little girl! It's sad when people hand there kids off to other people! Sometimes even family! I swear some people don't deserve to be parents or to have kids! But God had a plan for me and that's to be the best parent to my child then my parents were to us! I'm sure he has a plan for you! Stay strong! And no matter what, love those kids! You'll regret it if you don't! I was mean to my little brother and sister after we got placed in different homes bcz I blamed them for me being in foster care, and now I regret it! Even tho we still talk and I love them more then I ever have! But everything will work out! I promise.

I'm always going to be here for her because she's my baby girl. but it drives me insane when my sister screams at her and stuff. my sister had a baby a lil over 3 weeks ago and my mom has made her take care of the new baby, but she screams at her 7yr old to sit down and shut up. she isn't going to not talk just because she had another kid especially when the baby gets more attention from her than she ever has

That's how my mama was, she basically raised her sister kids, but we ended up moving. Now one of them stays w/ her Bf && had a child after she turned 15, other two hanging with the wrong kids. I think it would've drove my mama crazy if we stayed down there, still but if we did I think their life's would've been different because my mama disciplined them && was strict with them just like me && my sister. Don't know if the situation the same but you might be changing their life's by just being there