i dont really know quite what to feel anymore.
my man and i were together three years. we have a daughter who will be 2 in june and were also expecting a little boy in june as well. he left a little over a month ago saying he needed a break because he wasnt happy and that there was someone else and i was like whatever. well we've been talking since then and not only is there not anyone else but hes also miserable. we agreed a couple weeks ago to work on things cause i mean there wasnt really anything wrong with our relationship, he just needed space (mind you hes 21 and hasnt lived it up is what he means) hes not showing me that he wants it though other than oh i love you all the time. i mean i know he does and you can tell but its like what you doin then if you love us and still out messin around. I have literally zero friends and nobody to talk to and my moms basically over me being sad and wants me to move on already but its like he is litrrally the last couple years of my life. my straight out o high school. so im trying to mush us back together asap because i dont really like living with my parents. my siblings are so lazy and nothing is child proof and nothing hets done unless i do it because im the only one who knows responsibility. I have to fit my son, daughter and myself in a tiny room and hes due three months from now and that room is piled high with junk. im overwhelmed and i dont understand anything.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
okay so i need advice ladies..my husband like every other guy likes to play video games and like a lot of you out there (im sure) it bugs me that he does..well he knows it bugs me and said he would stop playing video games if it really bug me that much ...well i dont want to tell him to stop playing because i feel like id be selfish if i did that..what do u guys think??.

Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!

Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Everyday little by little you need to clean it up and make it live able for your daughter and son on the way. As far as your boyfriend goes it's either you guys are together or you're not. Don't bring those children up in a confusing environment he should've thought about living his life before he started bringing children in to the world.