I hates this feeling. me and my mom don't have the relationship we use to before she kicked me out on my birthday. we hardly talk. I would always try to reach out to her but she wouldn't reach back it hurts. I love my mom. even if she was way to strict with me and being kicked out and the craps I've been through made me stronger. now that I'm pregnant she's talking to me more and taking me out to eat I would love to help pay but my financial situation won't let me so I feel guilty about that. she's only done this twice but. she's been helping me get things for Leo. like before I wanted her to help at least a little and now that she helping I feel like she feel guilty so that's why she helping I mean my mom had a great paying job but spending about $100 on clothes and other stuff and. then about $50 last time we went out then she said she will get my diaper bag for me it makes me feel guilty because I can't do what she does go out and buy Hellas stuff for my son I can buy like 2 things a week and that's it. sigh
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I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My mom's trying to convince me to let her into the delivery room with us, but I honestly just want it to be my boyfriend and I. And it doesn't even have anything to do with how shitty my mom has been this entire pregnancy, I just feel that this is our child, I want it to be just something that we experience. Plus, I feel it'll be a lot less stressful if only my boyfriend is there. But my god, she's trying to make me feel guilty and I'm about to snap 🙄
Advice please ?
Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of d...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.