dunno if it's just me but has anyone like who is a going to be a first time mum have the other half's parents saying horrible things to u just cuz u don't live or do things that they want u to do its making me feel like I'm going to be a bad mother and just hoping there is someone else in the same situation who I could talk to
@jade209, in laws or not no1 speaks down to me about anything id just tell them to quite frankly piss off! xx
@jade209, I try and just let it go over my head. I only told my boyfriend about this earlier and he flipped so I think he'll be having words xx
yesterday my boyfriends mother said I was just a surraget 😭 some of the things they say are just plain nasty! Try not to let them bring you down xx
You're definitely not alone, people will always want to do it 'their way' but your child your rules, you do whatever feels right for you!xxx
@jade209, after I've spoke to @darciepenny I've started sticking up for myself, people may not like it to start with but they need to learn that this is your baby and not there's and it's up to you on how you raise them xx
Everybody has their own views when it comes to babies, but everybody does it differently, there's no right or wrong way, it's what works for YOU! Do your own researched and figure out the momma you want to be, your child, your rules as ive said to @briony1994 before, you do whatever you feel is right, and if people don't like it that's there problem, not yours x
Don't worry I have my MIL constantly telling me I'm doing everything wrong making me feel like I won't be a good mum but I'm slowly coming to realise that if she's being like that then she won't see the baby, because of her I've been signed off work with anxiety and depression so I know how your feeling, as hard as it sounds you just need to ignore them babe xx
@jem29 💕💕 @jade209 hey hun im with you on this completely!! Your welcome to text me inbox me ill give you my number always grate to have someone in the sams situations 💕💕
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Until u know what another parent is going through, dont judge.cause if they didn't need the money,they wouldn't sell the food. U just never know another person situation.
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@jod1303, I'll have to try that way they may not try and tell me what to then xx