dunno if it's just me but has anyone like who is a going to be a first time mum have the other half's parents saying horrible things to u just cuz u don't live or do things that they want u to do its making me feel like I'm going to be a bad mother and just hoping there is someone else in the same situation who I could talk to
@jade209, in laws or not no1 speaks down to me about anything id just tell them to quite frankly piss off! xx
@jade209, I try and just let it go over my head. I only told my boyfriend about this earlier and he flipped so I think he'll be having words xx
yesterday my boyfriends mother said I was just a surraget 😭 some of the things they say are just plain nasty! Try not to let them bring you down xx
You're definitely not alone, people will always want to do it 'their way' but your child your rules, you do whatever feels right for you!xxx
@jade209, after I've spoke to @darciepenny I've started sticking up for myself, people may not like it to start with but they need to learn that this is your baby and not there's and it's up to you on how you raise them xx
Everybody has their own views when it comes to babies, but everybody does it differently, there's no right or wrong way, it's what works for YOU! Do your own researched and figure out the momma you want to be, your child, your rules as ive said to @briony1994 before, you do whatever you feel is right, and if people don't like it that's there problem, not yours x
Don't worry I have my MIL constantly telling me I'm doing everything wrong making me feel like I won't be a good mum but I'm slowly coming to realise that if she's being like that then she won't see the baby, because of her I've been signed off work with anxiety and depression so I know how your feeling, as hard as it sounds you just need to ignore them babe xx
@jem29 💕💕 @jade209 hey hun im with you on this completely!! Your welcome to text me inbox me ill give you my number always grate to have someone in the sams situations 💕💕
@jod1303, I'll have to try that way they may not try and tell me what to then xx