I am literally breaking down I'll be 39 weeks tomorrow and there is literally no sign that he is gonna come, they won't…

I am literally breaking down I'll be 39 weeks tomorrow and there is literally no sign that he is gonna come, they won't strip my membranes cause his head is floating and not only that but now he's apparently gonna be a big baby so if I go over I don't think I'll be able to have a vaginal birth. on top of that I can barely walk or take care of my daughter because I'm in so much pain and she's only 2 so she doesn't understand. I can't do this till 41 weeks which they won't even consider induction until then.