I really do dislike arguing with ppl before bed and when I wake up it's the same thing over and over again like grow up…

you are very welcome mama

at least you understand me thanks @sarahdrew

he shouldn't be turning things around on you, you don't need the stress of any of this honestly.... if he wants to entertain other women then let him but make sure these other women know he has a child on the way with you (if there is a way to do so) most women (if they are true women and not just some hoochie) would tell him to get to where his child is, I know I would tell him to get lost and go be with his child.... even if he doesn't want to be with you he needs to be there for his child

he doesn't live with you? well he is obviously scared of his responsibility... he needs to either step up or honestly you are better off without him, I know that is harsh but I have a very low tolerance for guys who don't seem to care about their children or their child's mother

@sarahdrew,

I try talking to him and it doesn't work out and he always turn things around like it's my fault and now he talking about he need time for himself like at first he was living in the same state and then he moved out of state to the west coast

girl you and your baby don't need that... if you want to work it out then I say sit his butt down and talk to him make him listen....