So my child's father up and left me in the beginning of January. it's been so hard. and I'm struggling emotionally. I am still taking care of my daughter as I did before. he only comes to see her when he wants or when it's convenient for him. he ignores me and only talks to me when he wants too. he has been playing the whole back and forth oh I will come home soon and then the next day he's not. then he next day he will. it's so hard. I didn't think things would be this way. all I wanted was my family. today I found out he has a girlfriend...not even 3 months later. how? why? my heart is so broken. how can someone be this way?