So we will be starting on the baby's room soon and I'm already having anxiety about putting him in there alone even though we won't be moving him till he's 3 months old I don't wanna share a room with him but I don't want him away from me 😞 idk what to do!
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Need to tell the baby's father that I don't want him in the delivery room. We broke up because he was cheating on me.. Any ideas how I can tell him? Xxx
Am I wrong for not wanting my newborn to sleep in the same room as me? I just don't want him to get use to me being right there when he wakes up n then having a hard time of breaking him of thag habit when I move him into his own room
Mandy·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
Lol yeah my son and I never co@slept. But we moved back into my moms in oct and the ceilings were waiting to be redone so I put his bed in storage and it's still there. Lol. He's driving me crazy sleeping with me!!!
Christina·
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@mandy890, lol I definitely don't want him in our bed so that I will really try too stick with but idk about him being in his own room lol
Mandy·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
Right now my son is 6 and sleeping with me lol
Christina·
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@lkmama, lol iv done the sleeping in my room with my niece who I practically raised till she was 3 and I always said with mine no way would he be in our room but now I'm like well he's our first lol but I'm gonna try my hardest to put him in his own room once he sleeps well
Christina·
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@mandy890, oh that's good! He might be with us for a while lol
Ara·
Lol I know how you feel, I had my daughter stay in our room until she was 1 because of that! This time, I am hoping once he can sleep through the night, he will be moving to his room :)
Mandy·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
Yes I would put him down with a bottle at night and he would go right to sleep. And then at around 11-12 months I started putting Water in the bottle at night to get him off the bottle.
Christina·
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@mandy890, did he transition well?
Mandy·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
I had my son in my room until he was 6 months. Then he started sleeping in his own room