so prewarning this is a tmi, but i need to get this off my chest, so my boyfriend hardly ever has…

I don't know what to say to that I've never met a guy who wasn't a horndog....get urself a toy n make it known your gonna be using it he may get jealous lol

my fiance is the same way. not every guy is a mindless sex machine lol...he could just be lazy, it could be a hormone inbalance, or it could just be the way he is.

@mantha823, I know before this, I never had this issue, my exes wanted it 24/7 and it was something I got used to, @shurkusmomma I think its the way he is, but if it doesn't change , I'm afraid BC I can't live the rest of my days always feeling this way. doesn't it drive u nuts? I cry at night sometimes when he refuses

@mantha823, I have a toy but I use it on the low sometimes, I'm just so sick of the fake thing, its so not the same

it isnt....have you told him your unhappy with your sex life? @summerbaby89

I know how you feel! worst feeling ever! ever since I got pregnant I'm lucky if I get it once a month and before it was 24/7 it's bull shit right! but they don't think we have sex drives too like we do 😕

@mantha823, constantly! its like he's so selfish he doesn't even care @justmarriedhavingaboy. yeah its not right at all, I don't understand it, I would be worried if I always left my so like that, I'm really contemplating our relationship altogether, I am afraid if the situation presented itself and I still felt this way, id deff cheat, it's bad

I hate to be so blunt but I was in a relationship like this for 2 years. you're just going to have to get use to it or move on cuz he isn't going to change. he just doesn't have a high sex drive and that's really not something you can change unless you slip a Viagra in his drink lol.

@mommy2be711, ugh its so sad! u didn't want a broken family but I cannot do this forever its too hard

Yea I know what you mean. it got to the point where I had to beg for a simple kiss. that was the end of that. @summerbaby89

@summerbaby89, if you think that you could cheat you should just move on... I honestly am not up for sex all the time but if my husband wants it he gets it. I'm sorry your going through this

@mommy2be711, omg, yeah, it's pretty shitty. I'll even go down on him and he's like nah. I'm tired. like why can't u just suck it up, its not like its a bad thing, FML 😤😢

@summerbaby89, is he okay with other forms of intimacy, like cuddling

I'm in that situation too, but I thought about it, and decided that I love him enough to power through it. I also invested on a "toy" from groupon when I really need to scratch the itch.

I go through the same shit @summerbaby89

yes he does cuddle a lot @suprise4, I love him too but being bitter about this definitely affects the amount of love I have for him, @ms.jones, sorry to hear, sucks, least were not alone, I just don't understand it