Both of our family's have a lot of money and land and I can kind of understand why he would want it but like I said I've been married before; didn't have one and didn't need one even though I came in with a lot more than he did. I just feel like 1. it sends the message that you already have a divorce in mind and 2. that in the event of a divorce you don't trust that I wouldn't try to take anything that wasn't rightfully mine.

I own a business and I still don't have one. Sometimes it's needed sometimes it's not it really depends on what assets you or he might have that he is not willing to split in case of a divorce some peoples pre nip says you leave with what you came with @morris