can someone snap my husband? I wanna see if he's going to cheat.

@tayek, said Fatal Attraction Lmfaooooo. Sorry. I thought it was funny

...you need to go ahead and free yourself. Both of you deserve better--he doesn't deserve this level of distrust and you don't deserve to stop so low as to ask strangers to trap your lively innocent husband. This is some borderline fatal attraction stuff. 😧

wtf

he left his charger at work and his phone died so I can't see.

I agree with everyone else on this. He is your husband and you should be able to trust him. The fact you're trying to catch him in something indicates there isn't a lot of trust. Even if you made a secrect snap chat to try to catch him or asked another woman to do it (which I don't think any self respecting woman should involve herself in a another couples issues) if he's smart, he'll be suspicious. There is a way to see if the personal snaps or messages he's received are old or not. There should be a time stamp. That will give you a clearer idea of how old his snap chat really is. Overall, I suggest marriage counseling. Or divorce.

I've tried that and he knew it was me.

hmmm well I don't judge people so I can't say once a cheater always a cheater.. but actions do speak volumes. maybe you could make a different snap chat and just take photos of pics from Google or something? or download a text app and act like someone you think he'd chest on you with. @lilmomma1415

*dating

@gypsy.soul2, he cheated on his ex right before we started talking

I did he just got mad.

how about you ask him?

just ask him.. be blunt about it.. Unless he's an unfit father a state won't take his rights away if he shows he wants to be in his kids life.. they'll probably see if yall can make make a parenting plan first to avoid an actual hearing.. usually mom will get soul custody and physical custody etc if you have your life together (my friend lost custody of her son bc she had no income, no plans set up, and is now working 2 jobs just to gain some custody back, her ex hubby is in the military though).. if you guys have marital problems maybe seek out counseling and other outlets, if you have to delete people off a social media app then there's obviously some underlying issues.. I'm sorry you're going through this :/ just be careful trying to set him up, it could be hurtful to him if he isnt cheating but idk him to question his integrity either.. has he cheated before ? @lilmomma1415

@kimberlyyyy, because he got on an old Snapchat and got mad when I deleded people off it.

Well normally if you have that gut feeling something is going on... Then something is. Girls in general have a good gut instinct. But I'm with her^^^ don't wanna go looking for something you don't wanna find. @lilmomma1415

If you think he would do something like that, and you're worried about him ever having custody of your son, then why are you even with him?

Soooo... I have to ask, why do you think he will (or already is) cheat(ing)?

and so he cant get cosdy of my son

@lovingmylilg, @kimberlyyyy I have to know before my sons here so I can find a good lawyer.

@lilmomma1415, awwwe I'm sure he won't! Try to think positive.

don't go looking for something you don't want to find..not right now momma

That's kinda setting yourself up for disaster... Do you really want to do that?