my boyfriend/babies dad, was video chatting with his daughter. her and his babymamas little brother were showing us their bunnies, and my boyfriend was like "oh that's my little brother in law or whatever,"
now I don't know if I'm nuts or my pregnancy hormones have me fucked up..but my face turned red and I had to leave the room.
To me I instantly begin thinking he slipped up and mistakenly said that, because he has feelings for his babymama.
to the point where I'm seriously heart broken feeling like I'll always be second choice!
I wish I could blame my hormones but Idk if it is aha.
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oh girl, we don't even live near his family, in a completely different state now. Lol they're irrelevant in our lives!
me and my bf agree that once you have a baby and you turn into a family, your own family comes second.
Oh trust me I feel you on the sister in law.. I have one just like that. she has always hated me from day 1 and over the 11 years of our relationship has tried to break us up over a dozen times. Just hang in there. It'll get better & if it doesn't you have the most precious gift of unconditional love on the way (:
totally understandable, I actually got into a weird situation with his sister recently. she is young and just doesn't know much. but old enough to talk drama and all of that. she talks hate so much about his BM and then I find out that they are extremely close.
constantly making comments how she will never have a better niece than their daughter and their daughter is her favorite.
which automatically rubbed me the wrong way because our daughter is due here soon and I right away felt as if she was just talking shit being spiteful with the babymama.
definitely not something I'm into, being close with people's family.
But I completely understand your feelings. My husband had an ex wife so I've been there.
when you have kids with people and you get close with their family no matter if things work out or not those people are still like your family. You don't have to break up with the family just because the relationship ended. That's what makes great coparents.
that's exactly how my husband is (: you two are going to do just fine! And congrats on the baby ❤